Ghosting but with extra steps

2021.10.24 13:34 Thinefieldisempty Ghosting but with extra steps

I met a guy on Tinder last week and really hit it off, he seemed genuinely into me and I was definitely into him. He went on a work trip and got back yesterday. I had an awful week, barely been sleeping, super stressed out about other things and was really looking forward to watching my favorite movie with him and getting to know him more. He messaged me earlier than planned to tell me he landed early, messaged back and forth for about an hour and he said he texted me and asked if I got it, I said no and gave him my number again to make sure he had the right one. Said he was gonna text and I said okay. Hadn’t heard from him so went to check Tinder and he unmatched, I guess? My messages disappeared which I didn’t know happens as I’ve barely ever used Tinder and last time was well over a year ago.
I did worry about ghosting and heavily considered the possibility of just not hearing from him at all so I sorta prepared for that. Didn’t feel likely because he was on top of communication when we tried to plan hanging out again before he left and even gave me his work travel schedule for the coming months. But then to message me as if everything is good and then ghost is really weird and my brain can’t comprehend someone intentionally going out of their way to do that so I’m stuck on the infinitesimal chance of what if he has a number I have blocked from a previously creepy dude or something bizarre. I’ve also had texts just not go through several times before and have gotten voicemails up to 18months later somehow. I can’t help but worry he thinks I’m ignoring him. Lol My friend suggested he has a significant other and maybe he got home and his person went through his phone which is probably more likely. In any case this just sucks.
It’s not even so much about the dude himself but the unknown and sudden unexpected and confusing things really mess with me, I have no problem being rejected if someone is upfront about it. Sure it can still hurt but to me nothing is worse than not knowing what is happening which is part of why I generally avoid people but my loneliness sure got the best of me.
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2021.10.24 13:34 Same_Distribution326 Mad Dog goats on a sunny Sunday morning

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2021.10.24 13:34 ollyoctopuss Do old people understand tiktok memes?

I’m talking people 40+
Like boy what the hell boy
Or 19 dollar Fortnite card
Like is this random words to them or do they unstand what I’m talking about
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2021.10.24 13:34 timlee126 How do display server, window manager, application clients and drivers of IO devices work together?

I am trying to understand the architecture of display server, window manager, application clients and drivers of IO devices.
Is it correct that there are two workflows as the following?
When an application client wants to redraw the content in its window,

When an input device receives some user input,
What is the relationship between the display server and the window manager?
Thanks.
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2021.10.24 13:34 DanieTB99 How much would it cost to paint a drz black?

Hate how the yellow drz's look, love how the black look. I think im gonna buy one and I found a 2018 model for a pretty good price. Would it be worth painting it? Would it be hard to do myself?
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2021.10.24 13:34 leilinho10 no r/vexillologycirclejerk

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2021.10.24 13:34 andrew282 🐰 $Baby RocketBunny - Fair Launch OCT 24TH @ 6:00 PM UTC | Audit provided | Snipe Protection| 50% Burn | One Month 100% LP Locked

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You can find the token available for trade on Pancakeswap, the most popular Decentralized Exchange on BSC. A new Meme token, based on Elon Musk tweet, with huge potential.
🚀🐰 $Baby RocketBunny is a token based on the Binance Smart Chain that will be Fair-Launched on Oct 24th at 6:00 PM UTC. CoinSniper TOP 10.
📌Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
💬 Telegram: https://t.me/BabyRocketBunny
🌎 Website: https://babyrocketbunny.net/
💬 Twitter: https://twitter.com/BabyRocketBunny
📝 Audit: https://babyrocketbunny.net/assets/images/feature/BabyRocketBunnyaudit.pdf
❗️ Fair Launch
100% of the Liquidity will be locked until 2022 via DxSale
Buyback active
Anti-Snipe
Airdrops will be randomly distributed to active members on Telegram after the launch.
✏️ Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
📌 Launch Date: 19 OCT - 18:00 UTC
🔒 100% of the Liquidity will be locked for One Month
⭐️ Liquidity Start: 2 BNB
❗️ TOKENOMICS
NAME: Baby RocketBunny
SYMBOL: $BabyRocketBunny
TOTAL SUPPLY: 100,000,000,000
Burn: 50%
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Marketing: 2%
Transaction Fee
💸 2% goes to Ecosystem
💸 4% goes to Liquidity
💸 4% goes to Marketing
💸 2% goes to BuyBack Feature
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2021.10.24 13:34 QuasiSean Eugene N2

I had too good of a time at Matthew Knight and left my xl grey tour shirt in my seat. Just hoping a Phan got it instead of going in the trash
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2021.10.24 13:34 ashenedcloudz Boost for Boost?

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2021.10.24 13:34 nisebblumberg Advice on what I should do about this stuff?

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2021.10.24 13:34 liveoakenforest What’s the real story with property crime in Tucson?

I’m wondering how significant it really is. So you have any stories from your own time there?
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2021.10.24 13:34 andrew282 🐰 $Baby RocketBunny - Fair Launch OCT 24TH @ 6:00 PM UTC | Audit provided | Snipe Protection| 50% Burn | One Month 100% LP Locked

🚀🐰 $Baby RocketBunny is a decentralized finance project that will be launched on Binance Smart Chain on October 24th at 6 pm UTC.
You can find the token available for trade on Pancakeswap, the most popular Decentralized Exchange on BSC. A new Meme token, based on Elon Musk tweet, with huge potential.
🚀🐰 $Baby RocketBunny is a token based on the Binance Smart Chain that will be Fair-Launched on Oct 24th at 6:00 PM UTC. CoinSniper TOP 10.
📌Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
💬 Telegram: https://t.me/BabyRocketBunny
🌎 Website: https://babyrocketbunny.net/
💬 Twitter: https://twitter.com/BabyRocketBunny
📝 Audit: https://babyrocketbunny.net/assets/images/feature/BabyRocketBunnyaudit.pdf
❗️ Fair Launch
100% of the Liquidity will be locked until 2022 via DxSale
Buyback active
Anti-Snipe
Airdrops will be randomly distributed to active members on Telegram after the launch.
✏️ Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
📌 Launch Date: 19 OCT - 18:00 UTC
🔒 100% of the Liquidity will be locked for One Month
⭐️ Liquidity Start: 2 BNB
❗️ TOKENOMICS
NAME: Baby RocketBunny
SYMBOL: $BabyRocketBunny
TOTAL SUPPLY: 100,000,000,000
Burn: 50%
Liquidity: 45%
Airdrop: 3%
Marketing: 2%
Transaction Fee
💸 2% goes to Ecosystem
💸 4% goes to Liquidity
💸 4% goes to Marketing
💸 2% goes to BuyBack Feature
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2021.10.24 13:34 agtmichaelscorn LFG!

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2021.10.24 13:34 Virtual_Ad_4147 Can't look left and right inside the car

I need help I can't look left or right inside the car, it only works looking outside the car in other camera position it doesn't work either. Tried changing the button from one to another doesn't work either.
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2021.10.24 13:34 captainlaughtrack [NY] Hacked Twitter account comes up on Google search- should I disclose in an interview to avoid confusion?

Hi all
When I do a Google search of me, my old. hacked Twitter from when I was trying to become a comedian comes up. There are about 7,000 tweets including ones that I did not post. it also says hacked before the screen name (which I foolishly put my first initial and surname). There are some inappropriate jokes on there and I am trying to get the account removed. Should I disclose my comedy past as a way to clear up confusion?
Other than this, my record is squeaky clean. Need some advice.
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2021.10.24 13:34 Lendord It has been three months since I ended a 10 year relationship and no one asked me why

Not sure how coherent this is going to be, apologies in advance.
I need to tell the story out loud, I'm sick and tired of hearing it in my head day in and day out, it almost feels like I'm rehearsing it and that is not something I want to be doing.
Yesterday was exactly three months since she packed her essentials and cats and went to her parents. I knew this was coming, didn't know when it would happen, didn't want it to happen, but for three weeks I was sure it was going to.
She's a wonderful human being. Kind, caring, loving, funny. She dedicated almost her entire adult life helping abandoned pets. Actually when we first met, she was fostering the best dog on the whole damn planet. We started dating, living together and we kept the pupper. I landed an amazing package.
I am the bad guy of this story.
On the first weekend of July, we went camping, just the two of us, it is one of our mutual hobbies and we hadn't had a chance to do it in a long time. It was a great trip. In fact we didn't do it as much as we wanted in recent years, we were strapped for cash since I didn't have a job for a little over three years, so that trip was very much appreciated by both of us.
One thing stood out though. As I was going to gather firewood she said "I hope you know how much I appreciate having you" and that froze me. Just for a second or two "of course I do" I replied. What else could I have said? She's supported my dead beat ass for three years and then she found me a job that I managed to keep!
Rested and recharged, we went home. She cleaned the floors, we changed our clothes, went shopping, came back, she cleaned the floor, we went to bed. I'm an early bird, so when she got up and started cleaning the floor I was already eating breakfast. A goodbye kiss and off to work I go.
It was an incredibly boring day, imagine counting to three and walking 15 steps for 5 hours straight. That was my morning Just mind numbing. I was basically on autopilot the whole time, only when I was in the kitchen did I realize I was trying to figure out what the best way to set our cat on fire was. At some point during the day I had figured out that if you want to hold a cat by its tail and beat it's head into paste you shouldn't raise it too high, because it could reach the arm you are holding it with and scratch you real bad. To drown a cat, first put it in tangle it in fabric, like a sheet or a shirt, a bag would work best.
I had spent more than half of my work day fantasizing about sadism. I had reached a point where I no longer could live in the animal shelter I called home. I never wanted to to begin with. But now I just couldn't.
And so I spent the rest of the day thinking of how to solve this. Went home, took a picture of my mouse and mouse pad, sent them to her, cleaned both off and just sat there. At first I was waiting for her to come home, but at some point I decided to just not talk to her. And I didn't. For four days I didn't say a word, I was scared shitless. In all that time I came up with three solutions: a) we break up, b) I force her to give the fucking cats away c) I continue to live in piss shit and puke hoping I would die before I let the fantasies become reality. Neither is great.
On Thursday, when I came home our dog greeted me at the door. I barely got to see her anymore, since the beginning of the whole pandemic thing she basically lived with the in laws. We would only get her back when the in laws went somewhere not dog friendly or when she needed medical attention. This visit was for the latter reason.
I asked the girlfriend how it went with the vet and we slowly started talking again.
Fast forward a few days I still have no idea how to approach the topic of me not wanting to fucking day dream about torturing animals. I don't remember why the moment seemed perfect but I just straight ripped it like a Bandaid and went "last Monday I spent more than half the day at work dreaming of beating the cats to a pulp". I hadn't even finished when she started saying "then I want to break up" and left the room. Could be she thought I was joking. After all, she's heard me complain about living in an animal shelter before. That one really hurt.
Skip to next week, I have thought of about a dozen different ways to snap the spines of the cats, picked out a nice place to just drop them out of a moving car so the last time I see them they are in a ton of pain, picked out the best boots to stomp them to death, yes, work has been boring again. I come back home my dog greets me. I can tell she was snoring on the sofa before I came home, it was a mess. Girlfriend comes home a few hours later, she sits on the sofa to eat. Picks up a piece of clothing off the floor, sniffs it and starts yelling at me for not picking it up. See the cat pisses on anything that's on the ground. The dog probably kicked it off the sofa when she was running to greet me earlier and I simply didn't notice it under the coffee table when I fixed the mess mentioned earlier.
At this point I start yelling too. How I never signed up for living in a shelter, how I shouldn't have to race fucking piss demon to pick up shit from the floor and how I'm going to start punching that fucker one day and I'm not going to stop until it turns into mist. She throws a "how dare you talk to me like that" I throw a " how dare you decide to keep a second cat when you can't even control the first one?" She gets up, goes into the bedroom i sleep on the couch.
Fast forward another week, we're back to normal, in laws took the dog again, work hasn't been boring, two days left until much needed vacation. I wake up as gf was leaving out the door for work. I get breakfast, go to sit down, there's shit in my chair.
I get dressed, grab the sandwiches and eat them in the car.
Gf texts me she's going out with girls, I'm asleep when she comes home. She doesn't know I'm fuming.
Next day I eat my breakfast, go to get dressed, my work clothes are drenched in cat piss. Gf is sleeping, it's her day off, I don't wake her, get dressed in whatever and run out of the apartment.
I come home, she's shopping for groceries, I get food, she comes home I let her know I'm beyond pissed and don't want to see her right now, she goes to the bedroom. Comes out within 10 minutes and demands we talk because she doesn't want to live in constant anger.
I tell her again how I've been day dreaming of sadism and that I don't want to live like that, that I don't want to live in a shelter, that I am beyond angry about how my opinion on life decisions like taking in another cat or renting out the shithole of an apartment we live in were made explicitly against my wishes. That I am livid about her giving our dog away to her parents. That I am tired of being angry, that I don't see a future where both of have a shot at happiness. She offers to find the cats new homes and to look for a place to live that we both like, I tell her I don't want to live with a person who ignores my wishes and opinions until I snap.
Not more than 30 minutes later she was no longer in my life.
I spent that evening angry and drunk. Spent the next day extatic about not having to hide my shoes from the cat. I could leave all doors open and not be worried about the cat pissing on something. The smell of the litter box was beginning to fade from fade from the bathroom. It was bliss.
On Sunday I missed her badly, I thought back to our history together, was debating calling, apologizing, pleasing, begging her to come back. But then I realized something. In the year 2021 she hadn't brought in a single new animal. The norm was literally dozens a year the previous years. What changed?
I had a job. She knew I hated living in an animal shelter and she still brought in animal after animal. For me. Not because she was going to take care of them, but because I was. She was punishing me for not having a job.
So having realized that I miss her and that I hate living with her I spent my vacation looking for a new place for myself, scrubbing out the old one so she'd get the security deposit back while alternating between crying my eyes out and rage. I don't think I would have made it without the rage, thank god the cats left some improvised litter boxes that we didn't know about. Was like refuelling the need to get out of that dump.
Now comes the thing I don't want to vent, but I think I need to. My current job doesn't pay me all that much and the rent for the new place is sky-high. After taxes services and car payment I'm literally left with 10€/day for the whole month. I save up to 250€ each month. I barely feel like a living person, I work, eat, go to sleep, wake up at some ridiculous hour like 4-5 in the morning and just sit there waiting until I can go to work. Any activity I'm interested in, I will spend hours predicting all the reasons I'm not going to like it, how I'm going to fail, how it's going to be a terrible experience. This is eerily similar to why I couldn't get a job for those three years. I would sit staring at an ad for hours, i would have a blank new e-mail open for days without sending anything out. Something is wrong with me.
I don't know where to begin figuring out what it is exactly, it doesn't help that I have the breakup story just rolling on a loop in my head. The furthest I've gotten to acknowledging the problem was "she was punishing me because I didn't have a job and I didn't have a job because there's something wrong with me, so she was punishing me because there's something wrong with me". That "I hope you know how much I appreciate having you" she said when we were camping is like a Vietnam flashback for me now. You punished me for being sick, how can you say you're happy to have me? She had left once during my unemployment streak (2018 i think) and now I am angry at her for coming back. She didn't do the one thing I asked of her, to send my resume for me, she chose to punish me instead. She left, stayed at her parents for three days but then she missed torturing me by drowning our home in piss and shit so she came back.
It feels like I'm afraid of facing whatever is broken in me and instead I'm vilifying her by replaying this story over and over again. Making her the bad guy and normalising my barely existence.
I don't know how to end this.
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2021.10.24 13:34 stevedt What is the best tool for exposing pvc buried line 6-12".

I have a compressor but would prefer some kind of electric jackhammer (I think).
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2021.10.24 13:34 r1iyad I'm defusing the bomb

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2021.10.24 13:34 Muokie Darkrei Raid If U wanna Join <3 7890 4337 2360

My Code is 7890 4337 2360
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2021.10.24 13:34 selfhelpjourney End of year write offs

I’ve heard that some people will buy things for their business at the end of the year, if they are projecting a profit, so they can decrease their tax burden. What are some common things business owners buy, that are allowed to be written off? What about some not-so-common things, that still technically count as write-offs?
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2021.10.24 13:34 Scp760IsTheBest My boyfriend's grandmother grows tomatoes. This one's seeds are growing from the inside out.

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2021.10.24 13:34 tydog98 Get TCL R646 now or wait a week or two?

Currently $700 at Bestbuy for the 55 inch version, any chance of a better deal a bit closer to black friday?
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2021.10.24 13:34 zoddness [WTS] Orion RG L - Ferro Slingster RG - Parallax FFSSR 11.625 Tungsten AR15 Handguard - Geissele Black Tube/Super 42 Buffer Kit - ADM 170 STD - Sig Romeo 6H - Geissele 30mm Red Dot mount - Other AR15 and Misc Parts (CO)

Got a bunch of stuff to get rid of. All prices shipped. Payment via PayPal (No Notes)

Pics here: https://imgur.com/a/aloL2by

T-Rex Orion Ranger Green Size L w/ Inner Belt - $120
Ferro Concepts Slingster Ranger Green (no hardware) - $40
Geissele 30mm Super Precision 30mm Red Dot mount - $80
Geissele Super Premium Black Buffer Tube, End Plate, Castle Nut, Super 42 Spring and buffer kit - $95
SigSauer Romeo 6H 30mm full size red dot - $200
TrueNorth Grip Stop Picatinny Rail FDE - $50
Tapco Endplate - $10
ADM 170-STD mount - $50
KAK Micro Flash Can 5/8-24 w/ washer - $20
3 Slot Magpul Aluminum Pic Rail - $15
Vism Mlok covers 2 packs of grey - $8 each pack or $15 for both
Ergo Tactical Deluxe Black pistol grip - $20
Silver Anodize Ambidextrous AR-15 Charging Handle - $20
Ergo black ladder covers - $10
Parallax Tactical FFSSR 11.625" Tungsten Handguard - $110

Any questions let me know. Items will be shipped USPS.
No Notes in PayPal, thank you :)
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2021.10.24 13:34 andrew282 🐰 $Baby RocketBunny - Fair Launch OCT 24TH @ 6:00 PM UTC | Audit provided | Snipe Protection| 50% Burn | One Month 100% LP Locked

🚀🐰 $Baby RocketBunny is a decentralized finance project that will be launched on Binance Smart Chain on October 24th at 6 pm UTC.
You can find the token available for trade on Pancakeswap, the most popular Decentralized Exchange on BSC. A new Meme token, based on Elon Musk tweet, with huge potential.
🚀🐰 $Baby RocketBunny is a token based on the Binance Smart Chain that will be Fair-Launched on Oct 24th at 6:00 PM UTC. CoinSniper TOP 10.
📌Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
💬 Telegram: https://t.me/BabyRocketBunny
🌎 Website: https://babyrocketbunny.net/
💬 Twitter: https://twitter.com/BabyRocketBunny
📝 Audit: https://babyrocketbunny.net/assets/images/feature/BabyRocketBunnyaudit.pdf
❗️ Fair Launch
100% of the Liquidity will be locked until 2022 via DxSale
Buyback active
Anti-Snipe
Airdrops will be randomly distributed to active members on Telegram after the launch.
✏️ Contract: 0x1814266f34053af048d53e87d57f1fb553d5ce8c
📌 Launch Date: 19 OCT - 18:00 UTC
🔒 100% of the Liquidity will be locked for One Month
⭐️ Liquidity Start: 2 BNB
❗️ TOKENOMICS
NAME: Baby RocketBunny
SYMBOL: $BabyRocketBunny
TOTAL SUPPLY: 100,000,000,000
Burn: 50%
Liquidity: 45%
Airdrop: 3%
Marketing: 2%
Transaction Fee
💸 2% goes to Ecosystem
💸 4% goes to Liquidity
💸 4% goes to Marketing
💸 2% goes to BuyBack Feature
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