I think that I really hurt my sister's feelings and not sure how to make it up to her

2021.10.24 12:53 DryTry601 I think that I really hurt my sister's feelings and not sure how to make it up to her

I don't mean to sound like a bad person, but I don't know if what I said was even wrong, but I know it hurt her feelings terribly and I would like to make it up to her for hurting her feelings. She is my half-sister and I am 20f and she is 23f. We share a dad. My mom said that what I said wasn't wrong but she is my sister's stepmom, and my dad and paternal grandma are disappointed.
Growing up. I really loved my older sister but our dad only had EOW custody of her so I didn't get to see her as often as I liked. It was really hard on our family (additionally to her) and there were times I heard my dad cry to my mom at night about how much he missed seeing my sister and that he couldn't handle not seeing her. My mom always considered her to be her daughter as well and I remember once when I was 8, I told my mom she should have taken my side in some stupid argument I had with my sister because she should love me more because I was her real kid and my mom was the angriest she has ever been with me (to this day) for suggesting that my sister was loved less by her, because she said it was not true at all.
As a teenager, she started to pull away from all of us and keep everyone at am arms length distance. My parents had lots of conversations with her about it, but I am not sure what was said.
I recently decided to reach out to my sister because I wanted to have a conversation about our relationship with her. I told her that I wasn't trying to attack her and that I loved her very much, but was sad about the state of our relationship. I told her I was sad that we weren't that close and that I always looked up to her. I had more to say but she broke down and cried. She told me that I had no idea what it was like to grow up in her situation. She told me it hurt her to see our dad spend so much time with her and not with her. It hurt that her dad knew more about me. It hurt to be around us because we had this whole life she couldn't be a part of because she didn't live with us all the time. She said I didn't have a right to make her feel guilty because she had to set these boundaries for her own mental health, because no one else protected her the way she deserved to be loved and taken care of.
I felt awful for making her cry and I have been told by mutual acquaintances that she has been inconsolable and that she feels like I am selfish for thinking I am owed a relationship with her when my nuclear family was in tact. My mom says that I am not in the wrong because I am allowed to talk about my feelings (she does feel terrible for my sister and has been reaching out) and my dad said he was disappointed that she is so hurt.
So does anyone have any advice for the situation?
TL;DR: hurt my older sister's feelings by talking about our lack of relationship and don't know to make her feel better.
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So last year I got Cold War for the Xbox, and honestly didn’t enjoy it as much as I think I would. I’ve heard of how great Battlefield is compared to Call of Duty, so I’m thinking about pre ordering it for the release day. I love the idea of just a humongous war so I’ve been interested in the game but want to know your opinions.
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The race is at 12:30 tonight for me and I have my math exam tomorrow, but frick my math exam boys we watching the title fight.
After all 5 hours of sleep is all you really need
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2021.10.24 12:53 SilverAlter Is it normal for ER to lose audio from dialogue after a patch?

Before 5.2, every conversation with Mei or the ER signet lines all had voiced dialogue.
Now it's all silent again (Except Kevin and Hua, and I think Kalpas too, but only signet lines). Is it some kind of bug, or is it intended to be this way?
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2021.10.24 12:53 NotStreamerNinja In your opinion, what country is most responsible for World War One? (Brief overview of how it started in the description.)

Please explain your reasons in the comments.
In 1914 the Austrian archduke Franz Ferdinand was assassinated by a Serbian man named Gavrilo Princip. Austria-Hungary responded by sending a list of demands to Serbia, threatening war if they didn’t agree. The demands were extreme, but Serbia accepted all but one of the terms, refusing a part that would give Austrians authority in the Serbian government. Austria refused to accept this and declared war, and Germany swore to uphold their alliance and come to their aid if Russia decided to help Serbia.
What followed was a domino effect in which a web of treaties and alliances forced most of Europe to join in the fighting, whether they actually wanted to join or not.
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I've built a honey farm, with a comparator signaling out of a beehive to activate a dispenser when the hive is full, but when the dispenser activates, it just drops the bottle without collecting any honey. I'm sure it's a dispenser, not a dropper, does anyone know what the problem could be?
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I'm not too savvy with PCs but got one a couple weeks ago with advice from a friend of mine on what to buy and whatnot.
All been running fine but from yesterday afternoon I've been unable to run any games as it keeps blackscreening and forcing me to restart at certain points where it gets strained. We've tried a few things and think we've narrowed it down to being a graphics card issue, have run benchmark tests for hard drive, CPU and graphics card (which made it crash in the same way).
We're both a bit stuck on ideas, the PC's only 2 weeks old fresh out the box, not had any structural damage or anything.
Have contacted support, but in the meantime any ideas/advice would be massively appreciated :).
Details below:
Resolution‎4K Ultra HD
Processor Brand‎ AMD
Processor Type ‎R Series
0Processor Speed‎ 3.6 GHz
Processor Count‎ 6
RAM Size‎ 16 GB
Memory Technology‎ DDR4
Computer Memory Type ‎DDR DRAM
Hard Drive Size ‎1 GB
Hard Disk Description ‎SATA
Hard Drive Interface‎ Serial ATA-600
Graphics Card Description‎ GTX1650 4GB 1080p DVI/HDMI
Graphics Card Ram Size ‎4.00
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2021.10.24 12:53 dstefane7473 Roland Juno 60 calibration issues

Hi,
I am currently trying to calibrate my Roland Juno 60, but I am facing the following problems:
Section 5-2 VCA OFFSET: no change when turning VR5 of channels CHx.
Section 7-3 LFO OFFSET: signal oscillates around ground potential, no matter into which direction I turn VR3.
Section 8-7 VCF LFO GAIN: SM says to adjust to 6 Vpp, but truning VR8 allows only for 4.1 Vpp max.(See attached picture. I think I read about this problem somewhere before, but can't find the respective post anymore.)
I followed the calibration instructions in the SM and all steps went fine except the three ones I mentioned above. All PSU voltages are calibrated fine. I am using an USB scope (Voltcraft DSO 1052, i.e. 50 MHz, 150 MS/s), they synth is connected to an isolation transformer and of course I do use special plastic screwdriver build for calibration tasks. There is no particular issue with this synth, just wanted to calibrate it before installing Tubbutec 66 Midi mod. Actually, some settings were out of spec which I corrected during calibration. The synth is not connected to an amp. For CPU board calibration (e.g all related to TP4 like 8-7 VCF LFO Gain) I used the particular ground pin from there. For calibration tasks related to TP19 (panel board A) i used the PSU heat sink as ground.
Not sure how to add videos to this post as Reddit says that these are not possible in gallery.
Any hints on how to solve the issues above are highly appreciated. Thanks.
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Looking to change careers from working with special needs kids to a trade, welding looks like fun. I was wondering if any of you guys have advice on how to get into the trade.
I'd like to end up in an area that makes pretty good money, so with that in mind would that affect the advice. Like which type of welding to learn (i hear Tig pays really well but i'm completely ignorant tbh) or the industry, anything like that. I'm not trying to be the best in the world, but i think i could be at least average in the area i end up in. I'm aiming for average in an area that makes decent wages/has good reliable work.
do i need to apprentice or can i get some practical experience and do some qualifications?
This is the first steps for me, just started looking in to it today so i appreciate any feedback guys
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2021.10.24 12:53 Kyoko_n_n TikTok-Ticks :)

also hier ist die Sicht einer "Betroffenen": ich bin ein 16 jähriges Mädchen, seit 4 Jahren in therapeutischer Behandlung, mit mittelschwerer bis schwerer Depression diagnostiziert (leide aber noch unter diversen anderen Krankheiten) und seit ca. einem Jahr mit Ticks. Meine Therapeuten haben die Ticks dem Stress (wie auch im Podcast besprochen) zugeschrieben. Dazu muss man auch sagen, dass meine beste Freundin zu dem Zeitpunkt auch Ticks entwickelte. Vor allem über eine Creatorin auf TikTok mit Tourettes haben wir uns oft amüsiert und unterhalten. Dass ich meine Ticks von TikTok übernommen haben könnte ist mir erst bei dem Tagesschau Video vor wenigen Tagen in den Kopf gekommen und ich fand das um ehrlich zu sein auch etwas gruselig... aber ja, wollte da mal meine Erfahrungen zu teilen, vielleicht interessiert einige von euch das ja :) wenn ihr Fragen habt, stellt die gerne!
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2021.10.24 12:52 SkyAdministrative970 Crb is gone and it IS going to kill people. Winter isnt coming, its here and its getting fucking cold.

Straight up the weather is tapping the frost zone. Crb was keeping alot of people barely alive, i only have my anecdotes but for every 1 person i knew on crb they were feeding atleast 3 people on there measly payments.
But Novembers rent is going to freeze them out. Fuck the holidays im talking exposure. We already have too many people in tents in every town and city.
Something is going to give here and the cold is going to stress it
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